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The Help, a book by Kathryn Stockett

  

by: Kathleen

Tue Apr 27, 2010 at 16:26:17 PM EDT


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I read The Help on our vacation, I live now with the characters in my head with frustration the book ended.  I just read that it is being made into a movie and if Kathryn Stockett has mercy on her readers she will write a sequel.

The book takes place in the Jackson Mississippi in the 60's.  It is written through the eyes of 3 strong, beautiful, brave, women.  As a woman who was born and raised in the south until I was 12, during a time of segregation the images and hateful prejudice are branded in my brain. The railroad tracks divided the small town I lived in, the blacks lived on one side and whites on the other.  The black women only crossed the railroad tracks during the light of day to work as maids, nannies and cooks for the whites.  As a child I used to look across those railroad tracks with such wonder so much mystery lie on the other side. Even as a child I always wondered why we lived so divided.

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Kathleen :: The Help, a book by Kathryn Stockett
The book has what I feel are some flaws, as it is written by a white woman, it makes me wonder how different it could have been if it were written by a black woman who actually experienced being a maid to rich white folk during the time of segregation, but it appears she got right on with some small exceptions.  An example
who says "Law", for "Lawd". NOBODY. Stockett doesn't get black dialect quite right, but I do think this can be forgiven because she shows that the way people speak is not an indication of intelligence but a reflection of the environment we live in. Another thing that stung for me was she left out the dialect of the whites, there is southern white speak even to this day, which along with the black dialect would have added charm.  Hey let's not forget it is her first novel so all is forgiven. With this in mind dive in for a wonderful escape to another time not too long ago.

Each of the 3 women are such rich characters a book could have been written about each one of them separately not to mention another character, Miss Celia who was born (what was considered) white trash and married rich only to be shunned and isolated by the elite of Jackson. Miss Celia could have been a whole book in itself with her relationship with her maid, Minny one of the most powerful characters in the book. The bond that developed between them as time and again events cause them to save each other is one of the most interesting story lines of the book.  I loved both of these women with all my heart.

There were many times I cried reading this book and on the plane coming home I knew it was close to the end and I dreaded the last page as the lives of the characters had become a part of me, how could it end????

I will leave you with this review and hope you let me know if you read, The Help so you can tell me what you think.

Publishers Weekly (starred review)
What perfect timing for this optimistic, uplifting debut novel set during the civil rights movement in Jackson, Miss., where black women were trusted to raise white children but not to polish the household silver. Eugenia "Skeeter" Phelan is just home from college in 1962, and, anxious to become a writer, is advised to hone her chops by writing "about what disturbs you." The budding social activist begins to collect the stories of the black women on whom the country club sets relies--and mistrusts--enlisting the help of Aibileen, a maid who's raised 17 white children, and Aibileen's best friend Minny, who's found herself unemployed more than a few times after mouthing off to her white employers. The book Skeeter puts together based on their stories is scathing and shocking, bringing pride and hope to the black community, while giving Skeeter the courage to break down her personal boundaries and pursue her dreams. Assured and layered, full of heart and history, this one has bestseller written all over it.
 

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"Indeed, if a poor man will spend a year in prison for stealing out of hunger,
how high would the gallows need to be to hang the rich man?"
~The Patrician in 'Snuff' by Terry Pratchett



o my! (12.00 / 4)
this sounds like an excellent book!

it seems lately i am being inundated with book suggestions that are far out of my "comfortable reading"....

maybe it's time i broaden my horizons!

i do enjoy books about the south, especially because i often get insights to the people i live amongst.....

it's on my list!
thank you kathleen
♥~

"Indeed, if a poor man will spend a year in prison for stealing out of hunger,
how high would the gallows need to be to hang the rich man?"
~The Patrician in 'Snuff' by Terry Pratchett



Ria it is a very easy read (14.00 / 5)
and you fall into the lives of these women as if you were with them.  It is truly an experience.  I ran into so many people carrying it around with them in Hawaii and at the airport.  It was an instant connection, they always wanted to talk about the characters and how amazing the are.

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I've got to be honest here, Kathleen, and admit that I'd never even seen, much less heard of the book until now. (15.00 / 4)
It sounds like an excellent book.  Do you know if it's still in print, and available in bookstores?  Just curious.  Thanks for the heads up and the info on this wonderful-sounding book.

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

[ Parent ]
It is a fairly new book (15.00 / 3)
and I think it just came out in paperback.  Someone told me they saw it at costco in paperback.  Let me know if you read it and what you think.

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[ Parent ]
Thanks, Kathleen. (15.00 / 3)
I won't be going to Costco, since I have no membership there, but I'll more than likely inquire about its availability at a local bookstore that I'm familiar with.  I used to buy a lot of books, but, due to the way the economy has been, this is one thing that I've drastically cut down on.

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

[ Parent ]
I'll definitely read it, Kathleen, (14.50 / 6)
I can't wait! thanks for the wonderful review

It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see. ~ Thoreau ... and, do no harm

Please (15.00 / 5)
let me know what you think Newp.

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[ Parent ]
absolutely! (15.00 / 3)
I'll pick it up this weekend when I go San Juan.

It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see. ~ Thoreau ... and, do no harm

[ Parent ]
Kathleen, (14.50 / 6)
thanks for this.

I guess one question to ask is how much progress has been made from 1962 to the present?

I think a lot.  Black people have it much better now than they used to, but we still have quite a ways to go.  Laurie is from Sumter, So. Carolina (via Michigan), but spent her formative years there.  What she tells me is that the south is still segregated, but that it's largely self-imposed segregation on both sides.

I saw that at UCONN, as well.  Coming into the cafeteria you would often see black students sitting with black students and white students sitting with white students.

That was in the 80s and I can only hope that things have changed.

Cheers!


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How much progress has been made from 1962 to the present? (11.33 / 6)
This is a good question and I think it parallels our frustration that divides all cultures.  It takes a lot longer than one would think it should.  When it is right in our face in this country it is shocking.

For me to leave the south and watch from a distance the unfolding of the civil rights moment was amazing.  To see the integration of the high school my parents graduated from, Little Rock High and know in my heart what bravery it took for those students to walk into that school and endure what they had to endure to go to a better school just brings me to my knees.  When you read the book and remember the events you have to know progress has been made.  It is painfully slow and why that is is a great source of frustration and disappointment for me but cultural change is always at a snails pace.. :o(

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[ Parent ]
that book (14.60 / 5)
is sitting on my nightstand, waiting to work its way to the top of the stack.  Now I may have to give it a boost, and vault it past some of the others in the queue.  Thanks for the review--I'm anxious to read the book.

puzzled (11.50 / 4)
it's good to see you. you've been in my thoughts lately....
hugs
♥~

"Indeed, if a poor man will spend a year in prison for stealing out of hunger,
how high would the gallows need to be to hang the rich man?"
~The Patrician in 'Snuff' by Terry Pratchett



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puzzled (10.80 / 5)
so happy to see you!  I have been thinking about you, I know being a daddy's girl losing my dad left me feeling so alone, not ever being able to crawl in his arms again.

So I hold you in my heart and give you a big hug!!!!
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Let me know what you think of the book, it will give you a break from life, enjoy.

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[ Parent ]
Hi, puzzled! (12.60 / 5)
Good to see you here.  I, too am curious about reading the book after this excellent review.

As someone who also lost my dad and sorely miss him to this day, I can identify with and sympathize with you.  Take care, and all the best.

The more things change, the more they stay the same.


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