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The anti-material girl

  

by: puzzled

Thu Aug 12, 2010 at 12:18:41 PM EDT


(10am~ - promoted by RiaD)

too much stuff

Tammy Strobel was living what most people would describe as the American dream.  She had a husband, a condo, two cars, a good job and a fair amount of consumer debt.   But the work/spend grind was getting to her, and after reading about the 100 item challenge, she and her husband began to simplify their lives.

puzzled :: The anti-material girl
They began by paring down what they had, and giving the excess to charity.  They downsized their living space to a 400 square foot studio, eliminated both of their cars, and Tammy now is freelancing and volunteering, while her husband pursues a doctorate degree.  Their debt is gone, and their lives are much happier. Oh, and, of course, she blogs about her life.

Studies on consumption bear out her experience.  Once you cross a certain threshold, having more stuff is subject to the law of diminishing returns.  Buying your first computer may have made you happy, but acquiring  a second or third one doesn't appreciably increase your happiness quotient.  Spending money on experiences has been shown to increase happiness much more than spending it on consumer goods.  The afternoon spent hiking in the woods with your significant other will likely bring you more joy than adding another pair of shoes to your collection.

Tammy and her husband weren't dogmatic about the 100 items-they didn't obsess over whether a pair of shoes counted as one item or two-instead they focused on the meaning behind their possessions:

Where was my stuff made?
~How was my stuff processed and where does it all go when I'm done with it?
~Why do I shop so much?
~Do material things really make me happy?
~If I have less stuff to worry about, will I have more time to give back to my community?

It reminds me of a sig line used by a Mennonite woman on a board I frequented years ago:

Simple living is not our goal.  
Simple living is merely a means by which we can free ourselves
and our resources for service to others in a world gone awry.

This story resonated with me, because I'm in the process of both cleaning out my dad's house and trying to streamline my own life.  I think in the current economic climate, iPad fever notwithstanding, people are taking a long hard look at their possessions and trying to figure out if they own stuff, or if their stuff owns them.  I don't think I could ever get down to 100 things-books alone preclude that possibility-but having fewer things to dust, to insure and to trip over has a real appeal.

How far could you go?


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the jar (14.29 / 7)
into which tips may be deposited.

bookS (13.00 / 4)
is ONE item dammit!

this is grand puzzled, especially since in the last month we are starting to go through our stuff & put some of it on ebay for sale. in fact, i've just spent the morning scanning in comic books in preparation to listing them. i've got scads of little spice jars & cannisters to photograph & list, odd dishes & FSM knows what in the huge stack of boxes in my spare room. i haven't looked in most of those boxes in several years. i know i'll keep the cookbooks but i also know there are several boxes of books i'm more than willing to part with.
there's also old stuff we picked up here & there, usually for free, just as curiosities... straight razors, double edge razors, cigarette cases, zippo lighters... just a ton of little stuff we never really look at, much less use. it's time...past time!... to get shed of it.
and then there's the stuff that belonged to parents that, really, we don't want or need....& none of the family does either.
the rule i'm using is if i haven't used/thought about an item in the last year it's time for it to go. books are the only exception to that rule.

and btw... when did you sneak into my spare room & take that picture?

"Indeed, if a poor man will spend a year in prison for stealing out of hunger,
how high would the gallows need to be to hang the rich man?"
~The Patrician in 'Snuff' by Terry Pratchett



I agree (14.60 / 5)
Books should be counted as one item.  If I had a Kindle, I could keep all my books there, but wouldn't buying one of those to store my books go against the spirit of the challenge?  I like books--the real thing--and I like being able to stand in front of my bookcases and pick up something I haven't read in years, but remember fondly.  

I'm going through the house sorting stuff for e-bay, a garage sale and charity.  With kids moving out and in and out again, we've acquired a storage unit and it kills me to pay every month to store furniture that they could go to Ikea and buy for a few hundred dollars.

It'll be too hot for a garage sale until October, but I've got to get started on Ebaying some of this stuff, both for the space and the cash.  I haven't done it in years, so I'm putting it off, but I'm sure once I get going, it will be simple.  Won't it?


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yes Yes YES (14.00 / 5)
gotta have real books. there is something just so satisfying about looking over filled bookshelves, finding a friend again....
and the smell of books... you can't get that on a kindle!
& if everything goes to hell they'll make mighty fine toilet paper- try _that with a kindle!

once i got started sorting, it got easier. i've come across a few things i'm unsure about. i put them in a box marked LATER. i figure after i go through everything i'll feel so freed-up by this massive shedding that when i get around to that box(es?) again it'll be easier to let it go.

ebay is easier than ever. & they do 100 free auction listings per month now (there are requirements, read carefully)

"Indeed, if a poor man will spend a year in prison for stealing out of hunger,
how high would the gallows need to be to hang the rich man?"
~The Patrician in 'Snuff' by Terry Pratchett



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stuff (15.00 / 5)


"Indeed, if a poor man will spend a year in prison for stealing out of hunger,
how high would the gallows need to be to hang the rich man?"
~The Patrician in 'Snuff' by Terry Pratchett



Great post... (14.00 / 5)
I cringe when I see even brilliant people I love instinctively refer to us as "consumers", rather than citizens.  That's where we lost our way, imo...

Agreed with Ria about books.  They're one item, as are a decent set of cooking implements / kitchen supplies.  After all, such things can be passed down and make others' lives richer.  :)

Although even with books, I've had to sell many over the years, especially a few years ago when I was living in a NW Portland SRO myself.  I'd guess I have about 60 books left still (down from my library of a few thousand earlier this decade when I made good money and had a good job), although I do tend to sell a batch here and there for farmers' market money once or twice a year.

Beyond that there are a few other basics, but yeah the 100-item thing sounds about right (especially if a pair of pants or a t-shirt is an item, etc).

I never did quite get around to being able to instill that value in my daughter, who is certainly a 'material girl' (although I at least did my best on food issues with her while I still could)... even my parents and my sister worked against me on that, constantly bombarding her with cheap plastic shit made in Asia, probably by girls in sweatshops who are her age now, as a twisted form of uniquely American 'love'.

How low could I go?  Well, I once moved from NJ to Oregon via Amtrak with all my life's belongings in a backpack and a large duffle bag...


wow (15.00 / 5)
You are hard-core.  A woman at dKos who posts as KibbutzAmiad was moving back to the US from Australia, and the boat carrying all their possessions sank.  She said since then, she has acquired very few things, and has little attachment to those she has.

Heck of a way to learn that lesson.


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Books and kitchen stuff are essential (15.00 / 4)
Decent cookware is SO expensive...I'd hate to have to replace all of it...*again.*  Cast iron is fairly inexpensive (but very heavy to move) -- good quality stainless steel can run a large chunk of change.  And I'm not giving up my Le Creuset dutch oven until you pry it from my cold, dead hands.

Plus I'm a rereader: yes, there are some books I could part with, but most of them?  No.  I wish I had the money and the space to get every one of Pratchett's Discworld series, for example, but I don't.

But I need a new pair of pants for work: I hate buying clothes, so don't imagine a closet full of them.  (It looks kinda full, but it's the size of a broom closet, mostly summer & winter shirts plus some jeans and my ONE pair of work pants.  And my winter coat.)  Both my pairs of sneakers are past their prime, and my work shoes were expensive enough almost two years ago that I hope I won't have to replace them anytime soon.  I should have replaced my flip-flops this summer, though.  Almost too late at this point, isn't it?  (They are my exclusive at-home footwear, even in the winter when I sometimes have to wear them with socks.)

It's a two-room apartment (not counting the bathroom): Big indulgence?  Computer & DSL.

I could jettison a few t-shirts I don't like.  Don't think they'll sell on Ebay, though.

English usage is sometimes more than mere taste, judgment and education - sometimes it's sheer luck, like getting across the street.
E. B. White  


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